| Location | Birmingham |
| Age | 0 |
| Date of Birth | 6/2006 |
| Date of Death | 6/2006 |
| Visitors | 4,736 since 17/09/2006 |
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This memorial is for our little soldier Callum Lee Adshead, he was born 14th June 2006, passed away 14th June 2006.He lived for four hours and for those few precious hours we had everything.I was having a normal pregnancy or so I thought as I took it for granted that everything was okay ahving had twonormal pregnancies.I went for a routine scan at 22.1 weeks of pregnancy,the midwife looked at the scan,then the consultant came in with a worried face.Then my world just fell apart,he said that the babys head wasnt formed properly and that it was a condition called Anencephaly and it was non survivable!!!
I was going on holiday the day after,I had to carry on the best I could for my other two children, so we went away to Devon for a week,we took it as a memory that we would have.I went to the Eden Suite which is situated at the Heartlands hospital,Birmingham where I had Callum, I didnt know what I was having up until I gave birth.The Doctors told me that the baby would probably be born dead so you can imagine our surprise when he was alive!!he battled for a brave four hours,when the time came for him togo it was the hardest thing I have ever had to do in my life.
He was very tiny,but had ten perfect fingers and ten perfect toes a squidgy face and a perfect nose.We dressed him in a little hat,cardigan and a special little blanket just for him.His mommy and daddy were there and his two big sisters and his Nanny.We had two weeks with him before his funeral so every moment with himwas precious we saw him everyday.Saying goodbye,well what can I say about that??
I have lost other people in my life and have been affected by that but losing a child is the hardest thing .Every day is an uphill struggle,good days and bad.I have to keep going for my girls they need me.I believe that Callum is in a better place and that he is watching over us each and everyday.When somebody has lived for a good few years you could talk about there life of their achievements and accomplishments when you lose a child you grasp at the smallest things because those are the only memories that you will have of your special little Angel.With Callum and others who have gone on before there time they were to good for this earth and are now playing in Heavens very special playground.I love you Callum, I always will you were the best thing that happened to me believe it or not you have turned my life around in the short time that you were here.Thankyou my brave little soldier lots & lots of love mommyxxxxAsh & Beth send their lovexxxxand Daddy sends his love tooxxxxxxx
We will think of you in silence,
We will often speak your name,
We will wonder to your resting place,
And lay flowers where you lie,
And no one will know our heartache,
As we turn and walk away.
Our precious little angel now in Heaven
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~R.I.P~
God needed an angel in heaven
When Jesus lived upon the earth so many years ago,
He called the children close to him because he loved them so.....
And with that tenderness of old, that same sweet, gentle way,
He holds your little loved one close within his arms today.....
And you’ll find comfort in your faith that in his home above
The God of little children gives your little one his love....
So think of you little darling lighthearted and happy and free
Playing in God’s promised land where there is joy eternally.
Helen Steiner Rice
He's perfect.
Just found your page whilst looking up my baby nephews and just wanted to say, your little boy is so handsome and perfect. He's smiling bless him. He's up in heaven now probably playing with my lil nephew Callum who sadly passed away suddenly 3mths ago. Today would have been his 1st Birthday.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your husband and your 2 precious girls. xxx
happy 3rd birthday Callum
Thinking of you today 3yrs today you were born,3 years today you went away.Still feels like its a dream.......love you for now and eternity mommyxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
missing youxxx
three years today I went to the hospital I had 2 take a tablet 2 start me of into labour,I wish I cud of held on but it was out of my hands..........I love you so muchxxxxxmommy
missing youxxxx
Callum my special little boy its nearly 3 years you went away.I think of you everyday,cant believe you went away.We will celebrate your birthday not your death we were the lucky ones wey had you for four hours not long enough but we got to see you.Anyway LIvvies gettin into everything as usual!!!love you and miss you Callum all my love mommyxxxx
Hello my special little boyxxxx
Hello my special little boy.Thinking of you as alwaysxxxxmissing you thoughts of you are never far away.Your sisters send their love I talk to Olivia about you but shes too little yet 2 understand We went to the cemetry yesterday its still very hard and hasnt sunk in yet!!I love you Callum when you died part of me died too.Till we meet again all my love mommyxxxxxxxx
so sorry for your loss. I'm sure my God daughter Paige is looking after him in God's playground along with all the other little babies. xxxx
16 october 2008 - callum my son, if you did not have anacephely, you would have been born 2 years ago today. every single day i think of what would have been, if things where different. every day is difficult without you. all my love daddy xxxxx
Hello sunshinexxx
Hello my little man.Thinking of you today as alwaysxxxLivvie is getting big now and Ash and Beth are okay and so are nanny and grandad.You are always in my thoughts from the minute I open my eyes in the morning and last thing at nightxxxI love you Callum and miss you so muchxxxxloving you and missing you lots of love now and forever mommyxxxx
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